MIDDLE CHILD SYNDROME

"Middle Child Syndrome"


Upon hearing this words, what can you think of? Can you have any guess on the meaning of this syndrome? A lot of people tell that this doesn't exist. But upon researching the net, I found out that I'm not the only one who suffered from this hilarious sickness.

Middle Child Syndrome occurs on those children who are born in the middle of a three-children family. They often get the least attention from their parents because the eldest gets all the attention and authority while the youngest gets all the love and security of the parents. So what's left with the middle child? NOTHING!

As I've already mentioned in one of my post, I am suffering from this syndrome ever since I went away from my dark past and move on with my new path of life. Though I didn't intend to got away from my parents most especially my feelings towards them, but it just occurred whenever I saw my siblings got what they want. As for me, I need to jump across the sea of nails, get through the hole of needle, fry and toast my face on a burning wood and shout my soul for them to hear. Even I've tried hard to get full attention, they don't seem to be bothered asking me if I do need anything. Because in fact, I do need a huge thing that cannot count by monetary means. I need LOVE and ATTENTION!

As day pass, I've come to realize, this is way better than to stick my body to them. I grew up independently except financially of course. Even though I'm still seeking for full LOVE and ATTENTION, I can now stand on my own and can do everything I want that my siblings cannot do. I'm proud of myself that I became a figure of freedom and self-discipline person. I may not be as perfect as what my parents would want me to be, but I can shower them with goodness and love that I've never felt before from them. I'm the only hope of this world, that's why this non-sense, jerk, pitiful syndrome will never ever stop me from soaring and flying high to catch and reach my dreams.

To all of you that experiences MIDDLE CHILD SYNDROME, never let this sucking sickness stop you from showering yourself love and happiness. As well as, never stop believing and conquer the gold for this is the only reason that we can make anyone proud and say "WE ARE VERY MUCH PROUD OF YOU!" The sacrifices and challenges that we've faced will just fade away and we will make them realize "WE ARE THE MIDDLE CHILDREN AND WE ARE YOUR LEADERS!"

PS: A little reminder to all parents out there, be observant and caring enough to know if you are giving equal attention and love to your children especially the middle child. Don't be the first jerk being afraid to talk to your child. BE SENSITIVE!